Category Archives: Relationships

Are You Trying TOO Hard?

Been there, done that and for the love of God still find myself doing it! In my experience, trying too hard created an optimal breeding ground for resistance <cringe>-more on that in a following post. I have a long history with trying too hard. It’s probably one of my best qualities, but also my worst.…
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Vengeance – A Plea for Peace

                What is it you seek in the blackened cloud of vengeance? Retribution? Annihilation of an “enemy”? A false and temporary relief from your perceived self-loathing, pain and fear? Has the darkness overshadowed your own light? Have you become so vested in the desire to be right, that you have…
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How Relationships Mirror Self Worth

Self Worth. Sometimes your greatest teachers in life had no idea what they taught you. Especially those who treated you the worst. The day you said, "I deserve much better that this" was the day you graduated from their class. I have a handful of gals in my world that are all going through some…
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A Few Words About Infidelity…

Its evident that the subject of infidelity is trending right now, both on the news and off. The recent hacking of the Ashley Madison website which describes itself as, “the online personals & dating destination for casual encounters, married dating, discreet encounters and extramarital affairs”, garnered some pretty hefty media attention and stirred up a…
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Are You Infatuated With a Unicorn?

I know the title doesn't sound typical of most of my posts. It screams flaky fluff and rainbows, but there is a message here (as is always my intention). You'll have to read until the end. So, you met someone. You knew from the instant you first laid eyes on them that they were different.…
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Has Your Glass Ever Been ‘Shattered”?

A few words and an analogy that relates to self-reliance, shared with me by a good friend. I’m going to make an attempt to add a bit of a poetic spin to it, while making sure I stay true to the message. So imagine this, you are drinking out of a glass. This “glass” is…
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The Freedom Found in Dropping the Facade

Facade; a way of behaving or appearing that gives other people a false idea of your true feelings or situation… A question was posed to me this past week, I’m not at all surprised as how the answer to this question has unfolded and thought I’d share here. Maybe it resonates and in me exposing…
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The Other Woman

I want to precede this by saying that the following is not meant to induce shame or guilt or make anyone wrong. What I'm aiming to do here is to dig a little deeper and have a closer look at relationships, self worth and ultimately personal accountability. When I came up with my intention for…
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How to Set Boundaries…Step One

"Chaos breeds where boundaries are absent" Hey you! Yes you...you reading this right now, you KNOW who you are. I'm going to start this off with a great big thank you. Yes you heard what I said, THANK YOU! You just keep pushing the limits and this girl (me) has been in dire need of learning how…
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Divine Relationships – The Straight Goods

This morning I posted a quote on Facebook that I love so very much, it's appeared once before on my blog, with a post titled "The Simple Truth About Friendship".  I usually keep my blogs posts to once weekly but I have something in me I just need to get out! Okay, but I'm getting…
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